Originally Posted by
rcc56
I recommend at least a few lessons with a highly qualified instructor. And a bow of at least medium to upper student grade [$100 to $150 range new], and a good shoulder rest.
Then you'll have to grapple with it. Half of the problem with learning the violin is getting physically comfortable with the instrument, and learning to be flexible rather than tight. The other 3/4's of it [thank you Yogi Berra] is the bow.
When I teach violin, the whole first lesson is about holding the instrument in a relaxed manner without straining yourself or dropping it. Most of the time the second lesson is about how to hold and move the bow, and the third lesson is usually the same as the second!
With a little luck, the bow will become part of your body instead of a strange, uncomfortable tool in a year or so. If it only takes six months, you will be ahead of the game.
Good luck, and lots of patience. If you share your home with family members or pets, get a mute or stick a clothespin on the bridge so they don't do horrible things to you . . .