In my geographic area, there are several jams that meet on a regular basis for people interested in bluegrass. I've always thought (maybe erroneously), that if you obeyed the common sense rules of etiquette for new attendees, everything should be okay. I'm beginning to rethink that now, however.
I know several of the people who attend the bluegrass jams through professional/work situations. Seems to be a common theme with the jam regulars or leaders to bash those deemed 'unworthy'. I keep hearing, "I don't know why so-and-so bothered to come out, he/she can't (enter whatever criticism you like here).
Now, I can hold my own with a guitar in most settings and have attended many jams in areas different than the present. But, being new to mandolin, I feel more inclined to lay back, play low and listen and learn. After listening to the water cooler complaints over the past few months, I really don't know if I want to deal with these knuckleheads or not (and no, they are not pro or semi-pro level players).
So, how do you go about finding that 'right fit' for your skill level and comfort zone? I've found a nice group of folks for old time jams, but bluegrass seems to be a 'hard nut' to crack into around here. Is this attitude widespread, or just a local regional thing?
thanks,
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